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What is squirting?
In the most clinical terms, squirting is a release of fluid from the urethra that can occur with sexual stimulation. (Hot.)
You’ll start by inserting your middle finger into her vagina, making sure it’s wet and lubed (learn about your lube options) so it goes in smoothly. Ideally, she should be wet enough that you can coat your finger with her natural wetness before penetrating her. If not, try licking your finger. The last option is to use lube.
As you insert your finger, you need to be brushing the pad of your finger (that’s the area with your fingerprint) against the top of the vaginal wall, like in the illustration above. Gently stroke the area with your middle finger and see how she responds.
After doing this for up to a minute, slowly pull out your middle finger. You’re now going to insert both your middle and ring fingers together.
To make sure they both slide in pleasurably, you’ll need to coat your ring finger with her natural wetness as well…or use salvia or lube.
As you slide your index and middle fingers inside her, it should look like the illustration above, with your fingers curled slightly around her pubic bone, so they are providing pressure to her G Spot area.
If this is your first time trying to make your girl squirt, it’s a good idea to do a little exploring with your fingertips. Extend them to reach a little deeper and then curl them back up to bring them to a shallower point in her vagina. When doing this make sure to run your fingertips along the top wall of her vaginal canal.
As you do so, you’ll be able to feel different textures and surfaces, helping you to find exactly where her G Spot is…Remember, it feels similar to a wet raspberry.
Now it’s time to stimulate her G Spot and make her squirt! Here is a bunch of different techniques, try them all and then focus your efforts on the ones that work best for you and your girl.
Push The Button
Like the name, you’ll perform the Push the Button techniques by repeatedly pressing her G Spot with your finger like you would press a button, up and down. Experiment and vary how much pressure you apply and the speed at which you do it. Lightly pressing can be enough for some women, while others need intense pressure.
This pressing can be pleasurable, but not be enough to push her over the edge and squirt.
Rubbing Her G Spot
Rubbing her G Spot in a circular motion while maintaining lots of pressure on your fingertip is another option. Again, for some women, this is enough to make them squirt, but for others, it merely feels nice and is not enough to make them explode.
Thankfully, the next technique will make squirting much easier.
Come Hither Motion
Making a ‘come hither’ or ‘beckoning’ motion with your middle and ring fingers will allow the tips of your fingers to run over and back on her G Spot, providing her with a lot more stimulation. Again, make sure to experiment with the amount of pressure you apply and with the exact location of where you apply the pressure.
As you curl your fingers, you should be applying lots of pressure to her G Spot. Then release this pressure as you’re straightening them out. As you start curling them again, start to apply more pressure.
For many women, this is more than enough to make them squirt. However, there are two issues that sometimes arise from each of these three techniques:
- You may notice that your fingers and wrist get tired way too fast before she is even close to squirting.
- They may not provide enough stimulation to your girl.
That’s why I’ve reserved the Arm Shaker for last. It’s practically a fail-safe way to make any woman squirt.
The Arm Shaker
The Arm Shaker shares much in common with the above three techniques, with a few important differences. Instead of using your fingers and hand to provide stimulation, you are going to use your entire arm. First, you need to keep your fingers firmly in place, with the tips pressed against her G Spot. Then you need to start using your entire arm to provide pressure to her G Spot, a lot more pressure than previously.
Do this by keeping your arm quite stiff while trying to raise and lower it rapidly. As your fingers are pressed against her G Spot, you will be able to provide massive amounts of pressure to it. This is almost guaranteed to make her squirt.
If for some reason, she is still having trouble with female ejaculation despite using all the techniques I’ve just taught you. Then you can have her apply downward pressure to her Mons Pubis, like in the illustration above…or you can use your spare hand to do it yourself.
Applying pressure like this has the effect of gently squeezing her G Spot further into her vagina, allowing you to provide more pressure.
My one concern in this position is making sure that you don’t apply too much pressure or press down too hard. Otherwise, you will be putting a lot of pressure on her bladder, which will make her feel like peeing, taking her out of the moment.
You can also use this technique during sex if she requires more pressure on her G Spot.
Clit & G spot
Now it’s time to combine forces to double her pleasure. With one hand, you will be using some of the techniques I described above for rubbing her clit while using your other hand to penetrate her and massage her G Spot. You’ll be stimulating her clitoris from the inside and outside.
The only hard part when doing this technique is comfortably using both your hands…
What position makes it easy to use both of your hands to finger your girl?
- Standing behind her is probably the best position as you can easily reach around her and kiss her neck while doing it.
- Her on all fours with you behind her on your knees, reaching around her. You may have to lean over her in this position, meaning that you can kiss her back as you do.
- You lying down on your back with her lying on top of you, also on her back.
Check out the guide on how to finger your girl for some tips on how to pleasurably rub and stimulate her clit.
If one of your hands is pressing on her mons, have her rub her clitoris while you stroke her G-spot. When she plays with her own clit, you can experiment with a wider variety of positions, some of which may be more comfortable for you or allows you to stimulate her G-spot for longer.
Check out these 9 clitoral stimulation techniques for more ideas.
If you find that your girl enjoys squirting and you want to try new ways to do it, then using sex toys is the perfect option. Dildos and penis shaped vibrators can work great, but keep an eye out for purpose made G Spot vibrators and dildos that will make stimulating her G Spot and making her squirt super easy. These toys have curved or contoured heads that are designed specifically for G-spot stimulation and do most of the work for you.
Some women prefer rigid sex toys such as those made from hard plastic, glass or metal because they provide the necessary intensity for G-spot orgasm and squirting, while others don’t need such intense stimulation. Your girl will know what works best for her, so make sure to talk to her and get her feedback.
Is Squirting Pee or Water?
It’s not pee, but….
What you might not know is that pee is actually 95% water.
So while the squirting might involve pee if there’s a lot of ejaculates, who cares?
Squirting liquids definitely don’t taste or smell like pee.
And it helps to remember that Skene’s Glans are very small and they cannot create more than 30ml of female ejaculate liquid by themselves.
So if you see in porn women gushing out tons of liquid, it doesn’t all come from Skene’s glans.
This means, that even if squirting isn’t pee, a woman will never know if she just squirted or peed.
And you must tell the girl to relax because when she’s about to squirt, she will feel like peeing (since squirt comes from her urethra, same hole where pee comes from).
If it helps, semen has traces of urine the same way, because remember semen comes from the same hole where pee does.
5 Other Women Men Give Tips On How To Squirt
To add some extra color I found five women and one man to give advice on how they make women squirt…
It might help you!
#1 —” I’m 35 years old and didn’t know I was a squirter until my current bf. “
Besides just having an overall better technique with oral, he fingers me like nobody else has.
Wait until your gf is really wet, and then use your two middle fingers (middle & ring) and make sure your palm is facing up. start kinda slow and move your fingers almost like your telling her to come here.
you should feel a difference in texture between her g spot and the rest of her vagina, a little more fleshy. when she’s getting into it, a little more pressure & speed. keep doing that.
the first time my bf made me squirt, I came 2–3 times before I actually squirted. now…it happens fast.
good luck and have fun!!!
#2 — “From a man: It is actually very simple. “
It might take some practice, but if you keep at it, you’ll get it eventually. Many people have undoubtedly heard of the mythical “G-spot”. This is actually what you are aiming to stimulate.
There is nothing mythical about it at all, it’s a few inches in the vagina on the roof. To stimulate it, all you have to do is direct pressure to the front roof of the vagina. (For clarity, when I say “roof” I mean the top part of the vaginal canal, in the direction of the stomach.)
This can be done through sex or by fingering. Naturally certain sex positions are better at this than others. I don’t know all their technical names, but to name a few of my favorites:
Lie her flat on her stomach, with you coming in from on top. Move as far forward as you can so that your penis moves directly downward. If you feel the contact between you and a wall which is the roof of her vagina, you’re doing it right.
Lie her on her side with you positioned upright on your knees. Again orient yourself at a slight angle so that your penis moves not in and out, but more from back to front.
Have her lie on her back, propping her waist of in the air in an arched back type position. Once again in an upright vertical position, hold and lift her waist to relive some of the weight and direct the motion of your penis straight up in the air.
All of this should apply a good deal of pressure on the “roof” of the vagina and will stimulate the G-Spot.
One thing to remember is that hard pressure (in moderation) is a good thing. You will notice when you familiarize yourself with the roof of the vagina that it is somewhat elastic and stretchy. You want to stretch it (albeit within reason). I’ve noticed that this seems to have the most significant effect.
So now you’ve had enough fun stimulating the G-Spot and you are ready to make her squirt, what now? I have yet to do it through sex (though I’m sure it’s not impossible), so you will continue from here with your fingers.
With her lying on her back, her stomach up in the air, place your fingers in with your palm facing up. Then, hook your fingers so they are pointing back towards you.
At the right angle, you should feel them “snag” on the roof of the vagina slightly, as it stretches. Now, all you want to do is pull slightly, but very quickly putting the emphasis on directing your force up and back towards you. Do it fast enough and you will feel it before long.
Having discovered the “secret” I have not met a girl yet who I haven’t been able to make squirt. I am confident that any girl can squirt provided the proper technique is applied.
#3 — “The most important thing to remember is that you can’t break her vagina.”
“It takes rapid and intense manipulation of her g-spot, and if you’re timid in bed you’re gonna have a hard time.
First off, make sure that she’s hydrated.
Second off, make sure that she’s really turned on, lots of foreplay, oral, if she’s into being spanked, whatever she’s into, do that.
Third off, make sure that she’s relaxed.
It’s hard to do it with a brand new partner or someone whose uncomfortable for some reason — have her go pee first, as she’s going to feel like she needs to pee when she’s getting close and if she clenches to stop it, she won’t squirt. Once these things are accomplished, it’s really not so hard. The floor of the vagina, closest the anus, is very stretchy.
The gspot and urethral sponge are on the ceiling of the vagina, closest the clit, approximately one inch inside the canal.
Your position on the bed is important. You can straddle her torso, facing her feet, or you can sit along side her, but you want to be (your body) north of her hips somewhere.
Insert the third and fourth fingers (ring and middle) on your dominant hand, fingernails towards the floor of her vagina. Curve the fingers so they form an L at the knuckle closest to your hand. Your fingertips should feel an area that is spongy, which may have a different surface texture than the rest of her vagina — wrinkly, for lack of a better word.
If she’s sufficiently aroused, there should be a spongy mass behind the top wall of the vagina that’s about the size of a shell-on walnut.
You’re going to repeatedly squeeze this urethral sponge into her pubic bone using the top one third of your fingers.
The motion involved presses the bottom wall of her vagina down towards her anus with the _ section of the L you made, and then up towards the clit with the top third of your fingers, and during the up motion, you’re simultaneously pulling, in the direction of out of her body (but don’t remove your fingers), in a kind of “come here” gesture.
You will start to hear a very distinctive squishing noise coupled with a vacuum sound created by what you’re doing to the bottom wall of her vagina.
The entire area you’re looking to stimulate is less than two inches inside her, and the range of motion you’re using is about an inch (that is, the bottom wall of her vagina should be pushed towards the anus approximately a half inch at the bottom of your stroke, and you’ll be separated from it by about a half inch when you’re at the top of your stroke.)
The rate of thrusting required is somewhere between 90 and 120 beats a minute. And your hint that you’re doing it right is the noise.
Or if you want to cheat, invest in one of these: Njoy Pure G-Spot Wand.
The technique there is much easier. Insert either end. Hold the exposed bar below the ball you can still see (choke up on the tool, don’t hold onto the exposed ball itself, the thrust will be far too long).
Basically, punch her vagina (not hard, pull up a little short, it’s not supposed to be painful external contact by any means) at anywhere 60 beats/min plus. Oh.
And set out a towel first, at least, under her butt, or the pool she’s sitting in will soak into a wet spot.
The ejaculate doesn’t smell or stain though… it’s just wet for sleeping on.”
#4 — “The bare minimum is to make the “I love you” hand gesture with your hand.”
“Your middle finger and ring finger are down while the others are up (pinky, pointing, and thumb are not used). Those two fingers go into her pussy. Now move that hand up and down as hard and fast as you can. You’ll feel her get spongey and maybe feel a type of ball drop down inside of her. Ignore it and keep going, because after those things happen, it means she’s close to squirting.
I can only squirt while I’m cuming but some girls squirt before or after or they just squirt. Make sure your girl cums, don’t just assume she came while she squirted.
Make sure your partner is well hydrated because dehydrated pussies don’t have extra liquid to squirt.
Those are the basics and the technique to get any girl to squirt, because we all of g spots.
Make sure she is aroused and don’t just go in for the kill.”
#5 — It is a lot of fun. Good Luck 🙂
“Step 1 — talk it over with your partner, what you are going to do, let her know she will probably get a peeing sensation, but it is not pee, make sure you are all both open to it. put towels down if you are on anything cloth related i.e. mattress, sofa, chair etc.
Step 2 — once you are ready, have your lady urinate before you start
Step 3 — she needs to be aroused, whatever that takes, i find performing cunnilingus to a clitoral orgasm works the best for us.
Step 4 — prepare the hook method, insert your middle and ring finger inside her vagina, placing the pinky and pointer to the side with your thumb on top of her vagina
Step 5 — Start off slow, but quickly begin a more aggressive up/down motion putting pressure on the anterior wall of the vagina, behind the clit.
Step 6 — Once she starts to swell, it will sound very juicy and you will feel a large golf ball size sack hanging down inside the vagina (some refer to this as the g spot aroused)
Step 7 — Push the ball off to the back of the vagina and continue to do the hook method aggressively, she should start to pop
Step 8 — If she can communicate that she is going to squirt/piss, you should get a nice shot out of the urethra all all over the place, anywhere between 1–4 cups of ejaculate. If your hand is still in the vagina, she will gush.
Step 9 — Repeat, usually a squirt is followed by a huge vaginal orgasm
ALT — If none of this works for you, purchase a Hitachi Magic Wand with a rabbit extension and start from there.”
Learn about the two forms of female ejaculation from New Scientist.
Deborah Sundahl wrote a book called Female Ejaculation and the G-spot that contains all of this information and more.
Wikipedia has a rundown of squirting and its history.
Six women tell Cosmopolitan what it’s like to squirt.